HOW TO GIVE SOMEONE A SENSUAL, SEXY MASSAGE – THE BASICS

Once upon a time, in another life, I was a massage therapist. While I’m not any more, I still love to give someone a massage. All the better is that person is naked at the time, and I have a selection of sensory toys close at hand, like this little guy: My experience is not …

The Importance (or not) of orgasms

Last week I posted a poll to Twitter and asked about how important it is for women to have an orgasm during sex: Nearly a thousand owners of vulvae voted, and a discussion thread thirty replies long ensued. After a while, a few common themes emerged. Generally, orgasms are not absolutely essential but are definitely …