What gets me hot

CuriousCat is a social media platform where followers can ask anonymous questions. I’ve had some good ones lately and wanted to use my answers to create more website posts. A question that came through recently was, What sexually gets you off the most? https://curiouscat.me/HarleyBrixton/post/1174283171 I found myself initially not wanting to answer, since I try… Continue reading What gets me hot


Once upon a time, in another life, I was a massage therapist. While I’m not any more, I still love to give someone a massage. All the better if that person is naked and blindfolded at the time, and I have a selection of sensory toys close at hand, like this little guy: My experience… Continue reading HOW TO GIVE SOMEONE A SENSUAL, SEXY MASSAGE – THE BASICS

The Importance (or not) of orgasms

Last week I posted a poll to Twitter and asked about how important it is for women to have an orgasm during sex: Nearly a thousand owners of vulvae voted, and a discussion thread thirty replies long ensued. After a while, a few common themes emerged. Generally, orgasms are not absolutely essential but are definitely… Continue reading The Importance (or not) of orgasms