A Testimonial from Kit B

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Several sex worker colleagues have booked me for my services as a male escort, which I have both been really honoured by, and thoroughly enjoyed. Sex workers are necessarily excellent communicators, and don’t shy away from saying exactly what they want & don’t want. This makes it extremely easy to provide my services for them in a way that I know they will enjoy. It makes me feel confident going into the booking because I know what I’m doing.

It also allows me to improvise and build off their requests because I know where the boundaries are. I can add novelty and a few surprising twists, knowing that I am still respecting their wishes & boundaries.

I try to encourage all of my clients to be clear with their boundaries & communication for these reasons.

Kit, in particular, was exemplary with her pre-booking comms. It was an absolute joy to discuss with her what she was looking for in her experience, and if I felt a little nervous as I arrived and set up, it was only because I am an admirer Kit’s online presence – she is articulate, very well-read, highly intelligent & fiercely dedicated.

It’s worth adding that even if you are not so confident or practised in communicating your needs & wants, I am getting better all the time at judging what they are when I meet you and adapting as we go; and, if I am feeling unsure, I will ask you some simple questions, always without judgement, to find out if I am on the right track. As always, you are in total control of what happens and doesn’t happen, at all times.

Here’s what Kit said about my service:

I booked Harley for a 4 hour session in 2018. Harley was very thoughtful throughout the booking process, he asked a lot of questions to make sure he understood what I wanted (I came to him with a specific fantasy) and made me feel very comfortable.

In the booking this same feeling of comfort continued. It can be scary to ask a total stranger to come to your place and have sex, but throughout the entire booking Harley made me feel safe, secure and desired. Harley is not only totally gorgeous but really fun to chat with.

The whole evening was so much fun. I am also a sex worker and really wanted a sexual experience that was indulgent and focused on me. Harley did this perfectly. It felt like the best gift I could possibly give myself.

by Kit Bauer @foodsexwater

https://twitter.com/foodsexwater (currently on hiatus)

Happy ending massage for women

Erotic massage for women

Contrary to what too many direct messages on the internet may suggest, it is not all about the D.

Ever since I started escorting, I’ve set out to make it all about you. What you want to do, what you need, and also paying careful attention to what you don’t want. I’ve noticed that in about a quarter of all my bookings so far, clients have explicitly told me that they’re not interested in intercourse as a part of their booking.

What is clear, though, is that sensual touch and physical connection is still pretty much essential. Sensual massage is a very common request. What I’m noticing is that I’ll get a “Yes!” in response to the suggestion of a sexy massage more often than I will for a suggestion of intercourse. For many women, full-body, vulval, and/or clitoral stimulation is more sexually enticing than ‘PIV’ (penis-in-vagina) sex.

Having been a professional therapeutic masseur in another lifetime, I kinda rate my skillz. 🙂 And with a little pre-booking communication, some at-the-time discussion, plus close attention to what your body is telling me without words, I can start putting together a fairly decent idea of what will work for you, individually. This means not only can I get the blood moving towards your sexual organs (including the one between your ears), I can also work deep into your sore and tired muscles as well. I think this lends a sense of ‘completeness’ to this type of erotic massage.

The result: a new specific service

So, I’ve decided to explicitly offer sexy, ‘happy ending’ massage for women as a service that I provide.

You can be covered by a sheet or uncovered; you can stay face-down or we can cover every inch of your body; I can be clothed, in underwear (and I’m not talking about boring Bonds rags here – I have some pretty flash smalls), or naked. YOU get to choose… always.

The happy ending is also optional. Some folks prefer to be tantalisingly teased, and then to finish themselves off after I’ve gone.

What to expect

Make sure you’ve warmed up the room to a comfortable temperature before I arrive.

I’ll show up with a proper massage table, linens, and oils, and we can have a chat while I get set up. My preferred oil is coconut, but you are free to request something different. I try to avoid mineral oils such as baby oil and instead keep it to natural nut oils. Almond or grapeseed or good alternatives to coconut.

I will also bring an essential oil vaporiser with a selection of relaxing scents. Lavender is a popular choice, but not everyone likes it! It’s always good to have options.

Additionally I’ll have a bluetooth speaker with me if you don’t have your own audio setup, plus some music choices. Of course if you have your own playlist, we can put that on.

While we can use a bed instead of the table, I find it much easier to work with the table and can get better access to your whole body. But if you want to use a bed, we can certainly do so.

You don’t have to disrobe in front of me. If you like, I’ll turn my back while you get onto the massage table – whatever you need to feel most comfortable. If you’re particularly shy, we can turn the lights down as low as you want.

This service does not include oral. It does include hands and fingers, which I will usually tease you with until the final stages of your massage. I’ll also plant a few kisses on your body, too, but this service does not include full-on kissing. It’s more about your entire body being a whole sensory organ, rather than just one part of your body or face.

One of the best things about me coming to you is that you can roll right off the table into your bed or into a hot bath. Lush!

Finally, as an indulgent ending, I’ll leave you with your choice of either a bottle of chilled white wine, or a block of your favourite flavour of chocolate! The way I figure, you probably deserve it.

What if you end up wanting more…?

Great! Not a problem, if you do feel at any point like you just want me to ravage you passionately, you can simply add on the difference between this and my BFE full service. It’s totally up to you and you are free to ‘upgrade’ at any time.

Is this sounding good? Yes? Great! Get in touch with me by email and we can start talking about it!

hello@christchurchmaleescort.nz